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May. 13th, 2001

It was Silent Sunday today, where neither the parents nor the coaches can say anything. Just clap. It made my game a lot easier to ref. The players were pretty thrilled as well.

But tonight for Mother's Day it was my girlfriend and I, my mom and dad, and my grandmother. She may be my last living grandparent, but she's never been one for tact. So going out with her is sometimes almost like being on handler duty. There's the occasional verbal dance-around-the-topic that happens with certain things. But my grandmother proceeded to begin the evening (as she has at several other family functions) with a vodka martini, and then moved through the rest of the evening in a bit of a haze.

I'm of two minds about it. It's good, I think, to get the chance to chat with my grandmother over some of the bigger news, like my job change. But her interest comes and goes. I remember one time where she originally planned on going to New Jersey for Christmas to see my aunt and uncle and stay with them. Then she wasn't going to have a ride to/from the train station so she couldn't go and then agreed to come to Christmas with my parents. But the pickup problem got taken care of. And once the plans were in place to get her to Jersey she said "I'm happy I'll get the chance to spend the holidays with my family after all."

To us. My dad's response to his mother? "That's great, mom. I hope you have a good time." Followed by a smirk and a shake of the head.

She can be good, and she can be hard to take. She is family, but sometimes ...

- Pookah

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ekilon
May. 13th, 2001 08:12 pm (UTC)
the 'old people': those kids, so hard to put up with, can't understand them at all...
the 'young people': those grown-ups, so hard to put up with, can't understand them at all...
the females: those males, so hard to put up with, can't understand them at all...
the males: those females, so hard to put up with, can't understand them at all...
pookah
May. 14th, 2001 09:05 am (UTC)
It isn't the lack of understanding I have of her. It's her apparent low level of respect for my parents. That's what bugs me.

- Pookah
ekilon
May. 14th, 2001 01:45 pm (UTC)
but it's funny, isn't it?
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